tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451302681480654370.post1072562890805192778..comments2023-09-04T04:15:54.412-07:00Comments on Heaven and Earth Designs: Changes and QuestionsMichelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13874818005219201098noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451302681480654370.post-15744505464619128932011-01-19T13:04:38.249-08:002011-01-19T13:04:38.249-08:00Michele, dear, I feel your pain and discouragement...Michele, dear, I feel your pain and discouragement. I love you just for you. Please stay as bright a light as you are. It all works out somehow.drue-marienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451302681480654370.post-66887774724357884062011-01-17T09:14:14.860-08:002011-01-17T09:14:14.860-08:00Sometimes, you just have to let them find their wa...Sometimes, you just have to let them find their way. When you try to help--especially if not asked, and sometimes even then--you're likely to be seen as part of the problem, not the solution. It's when they don't learn from their mistakes that you throw up you hands. All you can do is help with the healing in the aftermath of the disaster. ((((Hugs))))Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15453691141219970726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451302681480654370.post-75899297289482743532011-01-17T06:47:16.674-08:002011-01-17T06:47:16.674-08:00You can't stop them from doing what they are g...You can't stop them from doing what they are going to do. My mother used to almost chant "she has every right in the world to destroy her life" as if it would make it somehow easier. All you can do is try to heal the wreckage left behind. *hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-451302681480654370.post-47839966641160766662011-01-17T06:40:03.669-08:002011-01-17T06:40:03.669-08:00unfortunately, sometimes you just have to let them...unfortunately, sometimes you just have to let them get on with it, even though you can see the harm there actions are causing. If you get involved you just wind up being the 'problem'. not any easy situation and the resulting stress can be very disruptive for all. It sounds like your meditation cushions will be getting a lot of use.<br />{{{{hugs}}}} ElizabethAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com